16 July 2009

Recent Thoughts

Peoples like to compare themselves to others. It seldom occurs in kids but it happens a lot among adults particularly peoples who are in 20's. They like to compare themselves to the others especially friends within academic results, family backgrounds, partners (boyfriend/girlfriend), and so on. Sometimes I hate peoples who used to be like these, so I would rather they just keep every single cell of comparability inside of them instead of showing out! Regretfully, I think I'm getting to be one of them or perhaps I'm already one of them. What a sorrowful case.
Are Men and Women equal?
The answer from me would be a big NO! If men and women are equal why is it generally accepted that the man is expected to be the protector and provider? Many women have proven themselves to be equal in traditional male career fields such as corporate, military, political, and public safety; however how many men want a woman with a moustache and how many women want a man with a soprano voice? In our society men and women have had traditional responsibilities that are specific to their gender. The man is supposed to be the provider and protector and the woman is supposed to be the caretaker of the children and nurturer. The question still remains are men and women equal? However, publicly & biblically specifically within the marital relationship men and women have different roles. Men have more responsibility because God holds men more accountable since He gave the husband the function of being the head. Same thing goes to the PUBLIC! A husband is not relieved of his responsibility as head just because his wife has a greater career position or she makes more money than he does. Career position and money are secular, but biblical responsibility in marriage is spiritual. When married people choose to follow God or the public, then, the spiritual SHOULD trump the secular every time. Of course, there are exceptions!!! LMAO~

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